Looking for friendship and dating black dating mature woman
Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc.Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... I haven't heard of any guys legitimately looking for friends on a dating site.Plus in all likelihood you will judge me as 'bad' or 'wrong' for some of the things in my behavior limitations so I am not going to be direct with them, you have to read my mind, and know it's inherent in my definition of 'friends'.""IOW I want the power to control your behavior towards giving me what I want, but I have no desire for the responsibility and possible negative judgments. BUT, will take advantage of "dating", meaning let the guy pay the first couple of times.....Therefore I go through the back door and offer you the false gift of friendship. If the man says lets go hang out and says "lets go dutch"....she can pull the "I cant beleive you asked me out and want me to pay!!! ....she can pull the "I do want a friend, I want a lover and a friend, hoping to find both"If you come across a woman looking for friends, call her bluff, ask her out and when the bill comes say...."well here is my half"..see what kind of reaction you get.....1.(and so do you ;) )This is not just a dating site otherwise there would be no option for just looking for talk/email or friends.Stop being so concerned about what other people are doing and pay attention to your own life.Friends is one of the "looking for" options the site offers.2. Men and women both select "friends" and "hang out."4.There is a back button for getting away from such illegitimate types.5.
Many of us aren't interested in relationship/s/o live ins.
Big sigh of relief all 'round for dodging those bullets.
If a girl says that to me, I catch them off guard by going, "Yeah, about that, I have enough friends."Why give a BS answer?
I have an account to be able to read and post in the forums, but I'm also open to meeting people and making new friends.
I figure there are a lot of interesting people on here who I might not cross paths with in real life, so why not leave the possibility open?